Beware the expensive gift giver the shining knight or princess. The one who says “I’m just like you”. Is it real? or is it a fake empath? Willing and able to change their entire personality to exactly what you want. Or are looking for.
Someone able to display emotions easily is not a sign of an empath. There are many things that leave a person broken in life. Why are not all of us given a golden pathway? As an empath, it is important that you know why a person is broken. Why they are displaying emotions and are they real?
The reason is that an empath has an inbuilt urge to help and heal others. And will naturally try to help anyone they see who might need their kindness. Of course, this is a noble gesture. But the empath may be walking into a trap designed especially for them.
Narcissistic Behaviour
People who tell long tall stories to others. Sharing and or hiding different information from the people they know. This causes the liar not to engage nor communicate too much with others.
On any sort of deeper level. On the fear they may be found out, burning the candle at both ends. The narcissist experiences this type of fear regularly. They do it to themselves through their own behaviour.
The so-called love of a psychopath. The narcissist cannot love, as general love goes. When they make you fall in love romantically with them. By offering you exactly what you want. By creating the perfect persona just for you. It is all only for their own self-gratification. It is an illusion they create so as to gain control over you. Why?
Because they cannot feel the emotions connected to love and forming bonds. This makes them lonely and even angrier at their own misgivings. So to feel better they crush you. To make your life as miserable as theirs, to make you feel as low as theirs. It is commonly called vampirism.
With hate and anger being their governing emotions. And no real feelings of friendship or love. Comes emotional abuse towards the ones that love them. Narcissistic behaviour takes its toll on both the narcissists and the abused.
Invoking depression and anxiety in the one on the receiving end. Long-term causing major health issues, sending the body into a breakdown. The mind into disarray and the soul into a disappointing state.
A narcissist does not experience anxiety, this is what allows them to be so cruel to others. And of course, that superhero ego also comes from not feeling anxiety. And when they create anxiety in you through their moods and aggression. They see it as a weakness and a win for them. The narcissist always no matter what the costs must win.
As an empath, if you offer your help to these kinds of people, they drain you emotionally and cut you off from your connection to yourself. A narcissist will use your love for them against you, to control you. They will turn everything they know about you into a weapon to hurt you.
An empath must be able to recognise a fake empath. The reason is that narcissists seek out the empath because they become easy targets. Simply by being the person, they are, loving, kind, empathic, and generous.
Often the narcissist wins and the empath is left broken and the sociopath has moved on to do it all again to someone else. Mind you, in a state of mental illness and misfortune. Because prolonged misbehaviour and lies and hurting others bring karma. And creates anxiety and depression.
When anxiety is caused by the self the only way to heal it, Is to become a better person. No amount of medication will do this for you. Prolonged anxiety due to a toxic person in your life leads to allergies and your body rejecting foods it would normally be able to digest.
Fake Empath The Professions
Look once, look twice, look three times my dear empath. Then you shall see what is really there. Don’t commit your emotions before first knowing if you are dealing with an empath or psychopath.
A toxic person will announce their empathy and hurt you all in the same sentence. Often the denial is so strong in a narcissist that he or she can’t see it in themselves. This is because the sense of entitlement and selfishness they possess blinds them to the truth.
The general behaviour of a narcissist is not that different from a 3-year-old toddler. Although much more intelligent, sinister, and fox-like. The one thing a narcissist will never do is look at themselves. The reason they hate the ones that love them is that they really hate themselves. Narcissists do know their behaviour is wrong and hurtful.
Unfortunately, entire countries are run by psychopaths. The world needs empaths to take control of the world’s affairs. Empaths no longer need to hide and run for cover, for there are many of us now. The rise of the empaths is coming. No longer will the psychopaths take control of the majority.
Psychopaths in positions of power will only ever create harsh hostile environments. Crushing productivity and causing utter mayhem among the feeling humans. You cannot reason with them and they are incapable of seeing the truth. The negatives are hard-wired you can’t ask them to do things differently. That’s asking them to change into something they simply cannot be.
The professions they are drawn to relate to control and power over someone else. Someone to abuse. Some are drawn to these professions for empathic reasons and will hold a balance in their position. Others the motivation behind the job is sinister.
The world has been set long ago to applaud psychopathic behaviour even praise it. The world’s economy is set in their favour. Psychopaths love to control and destroy, it’s what they do. Why do we all suffer while CEOs of companies receive millions of dollars?
The armed forces, police, doctors and politics seem to gather the heavier side of the psychopath. While aged care, health care and child care attract the ones who can hold a better mask. In the USA and UK and some other smaller countries, psychopathy is tested for as a part of the interview into these professions.
The False Soul Mate
One weapon in the psychopath’s arsenal is the false soul mate or twin flame lure. There is not a behaviour that is not known or recorded about these types of people. The method is simple to find a target to emotionally abuse. If there are obstacles to his or her target. Infatuation sets in, an obsession takes over the psychopath. Target locked in.
If they find, it’s love you want, they make a mask, especially for you. A reflection of exactly what you think a soul mate should be. Once they have you and all they want. Preferably for you to love them, feed them, and make a home for them. You’ll start to see the mask slip. The infatuation is over.
From this point on you become a target a focus point of their psychopathy. Passing themselves off as your long-lost love soul mate. Has a powerful effect on the person under their spell. It’s dark magic. When the penny drops. And you realize the whole relationship was a farce. It’s often too late the emotional damage has been done.
Beware of the instant soul mate connection. It takes years to get to know someone not months. If you really don’t know someone properly then how do know for sure their your soul mate?
The Metaphysical
As a child, I couldn’t understand why people were so cruel to each other. Now I’m a little older and a little wiser. Humanity has two completely different sets of brain patterns. Psychopath and empath. Causing the dark vs. light, good versus evil, and duality.
Scientists have known for a very long time the brain scan of a psychopath is very different from that of an empath. The human race is in a constant battle, stopping any evolution or ascension spiritually. It is why half the planet still lives in the dark ages. As the human race, we have no chance of advancing in this universe if we don’t recognise this and take action.
Psychopaths see love as a weakness, something they can exploit. I do feel sorry for them as they will never know or experience real love. It also reminds me, that we have a lot of young souls here on schoolhouse earth.
Love is the strongest energy in the universe. It is what holds everything together. And one day after many lifetimes, they too will have the knowledge and understanding of what love truly is. For now, align yourself with old souls and leave the young souls to learn and grow. With this knowledge, we allow ourselves a little wisdom insurance. Enter the healing code.
The Problem
Please, bear with me I do have to start at the beginning. The brain is a beautifully unique organic computer system, which controls the body. The body is our vehicle the way we breathe and move around on planet Earth. Most of us should already know this. But what we’re not taught is, that the soul or spirit controls the brain.
Psychopathy is a misfiring brain with software issues. It would be very shallow of us to look at these people as a misfiring brain only. Actually, sadly most of us are misfiring brains only. Because we’re not taught about our soul and the important role that it plays.
We are, most of us living, in a computer software loop made up of our experiences. We are just a computer with no soul. We become like the news a broken record repeating the same old things over and over.
Making our soul the driver of our lives is the most important thing the human race is able to learn. “I repeat” We are not our body we are not our brain. When we do this, the brain has a master and it starts to obey the orders.
New pathways are created in the brain, and previously misfiring neurones suddenly fire. And because the body is under the control of our brain it has to listen. So it begins to heal.
This is how miracles happen, such as being able to walk again after being told you are bound to a wheelchair for the rest of your life—or even being able to beat a fatal disease. Or become empathically balanced. The gods and angels are inside of us. We have the power to be driven by our own spirit. Spirit is God, the soul is an angel already.
Living with the restrictions of an organic mind and body places certain limitations upon us. But and I say “but” if we allow our true selves, our higher selves do the driving there are no limits to what humans can achieve.
The brain needs a driver. As long as we continue to believe we are an organic brain we have no chance. There will always be the very problems the world faces today. The same problems the world has faced forever.
If we let a computer run our lives we are nothing but a repeat performance. The definition of insanity is to repeat the same thing over and over again but not learn from your mistakes or know you’re even doing it.
There are those who try and stop this knowledge such as religion and all psychopaths who mostly run the world today. They do not want people to know this that’s why our gods are strange 200-handed ones with weird names. It’s a distraction from the truth. For you cannot control those who are connected with spirit. Because there is no longer just a computer program to be manipulated.
Not everything is black and white though. The brain stops developing at the age of 25 after this point it becomes incredibly and increasingly difficult to rewire the brain to that of a balanced one.
Considering psychopathy is a hereditary problem this makes this pathway even more difficult because the parents encourage the incorrect brain pattern, one of psychopathy. Why? because they were never taught that the soul drives the brain, and listens.
The Spiritual Secret
There is one thing as a psychic that sticks in my mind after having experiences with these people. And as an empath like a moth to a flame, I attract them. I wish I had known this little secret when I was younger it would have stopped a lot of pain and suffering. I could have avoided these people. I say people as a collective because psychopaths are all exactly the same, meet one you’ve met them all.
I used to see this psychic phenomenon as a child in people’s eyes, but back then I did not know what it is. Now I understand they can only wear their mask for certain periods of time. Even in the first conversation the first meeting the veil gets lifted but only for a millisecond. As their mask is talking to you a sudden blackness comes over both of their eyes. A look that reminds me of when you see life go from an aminal as they pass away. Then suddenly the veil closes and a cheerful charismatic eye is shown.
It now scares me when I see it. Because I’ve been through it all too many times. And the future of knowing such a person is catastrophic. The darkness folds down from the top of the eye all across the pupil. While the white of the eye stays the same. Exactly the same as a reptile, make of that what you will. This extremely important skill is not just available to a psychic. All it takes is experience and knowledge of how a psychopath works. Which leads to awareness once aware the veil will lift for you too. © Psychic Medium Ian Scott
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