The fake empath, the signs to look out for so you can avoid the toxic people in life.
Giving way to a free clear open warm future with the right people.
Someone able to display emotions easily is not a sign of an empath. There are many things that leave a person broken in life. Why, not all of us a given a golden pathway. As an empath, it is ultra important that you know why a person is broken. Why they are displaying emotions and are they real?
The reason being is that an empath has an inbuilt urge to help and heal others. And will naturally try to help anyone they see who might need their kindness. Of course, this is a noble gesture. But the empath may be walking into a trap designed especially for them.
People who tell long tall stories to others. Sharing and or hiding different information from the people they know. This causes the liar not to engage nor communicate too much with others. On any sort of deeper level. On the fear they may be found out, burning the candle at both ends. The narcissist experiences this type of fear regularly. They do it to themselves through their own behaviour.
The so-called love of a psychopath. The narcissist cannot love, as general love goes. When they make you fall in love romantically with them. By offering you exactly what you want. By creating the perfect persona just for you. It is all only for their own self-gratification. It is an illusion they create so as to gain control over you. Why?
Because they cannot feel the emotions connected to love and forming bonds. This makes them lonely and even angrier at their own misgivings. So to feel better they crush you. To make your life as miserable as theirs, to make you feel as low as them. It is commonly called vampirism.
With hate and anger being their governing emotions. And no real feelings of friendship or love. Comes the emotional abuse towards the ones that love them. Narcissistic behaviour takes its toll on both the narcissists and the abused. Invoking depression and anxiety in the one on the receiving end. Long term causing major health issues, sending the body into a breakdown. The mind into disarray and the soul into a disappointing state.
A narcissist does not experience anxiety, this is what allows them to be so cruel to others. And of course, that superhero ego also comes from not feeling anxiety. And when they create anxiety in you through their moods and aggression. They see it as a weakness and a win for them. For the narcissist always no matter what the costs must win.
A Need To Protect
As an empath, if you offer your help to these kinds of people, they drain you emotionally and cut you off from your connection to yourself. A narcissist will use your love for them against you, to control you. They will turn everything they know about you into a weapon to hurt you.
An empath must be able to recognize a fake empath. The reason being is that narcissists seek out the empath because they become an easy target. Simply by being the person, they are, loving, kind, empathic, and generous.
Often the narcissist wins and the empath is left broken and the sociopath has moved on to do it all again to someone else. Mind you, in a state of mental illness and misfortune. Because prolonged misbehaviour and lies and hurting others brings karma. And creates anxiety and depression.
When anxiety is caused by the self the only way to heal it, Is to become a better person. No amount of medication will do this for you. Prolonged anxiety due to a toxic person in your life leads to allergies and your body rejecting foods it would normally be able to digest.
Look once, look twice, look three times my dear empath. Then you shall see what is really there. Don’t commit your emotions before first knowing if you are dealing with an empath or psychopath? A toxic person will announce their empathy and hurt you all in the same sentence. Often the denial is so strong in a narcissist that he or she can’t see it in themselves. This is because the sense of entitlement and selfishness they possess blinds them to the truth.
The general behaviour of a narcissist is not that different from a 3-year toddler. Although much more intelligent, sinister, and fox-like. The one thing a narcissist will never do is look at themselves. The reason they hate the ones that love them is that they really hate themselves. Narcissists do know their behaviour is wrong and hurtful.
Unfortunately, entire countries are run by psychopaths. The world needs empaths to take control of the world’s affairs. Empaths no longer need to hide and run for cover. For there many of us now. The rise of the empaths is coming. No longer are the psychopaths taking control of the majority.
Conclusion: Psychopaths see love as a weakness, something they can exploit. I do feel sorry for them as they will never know or experience real love. It also reminds me, we have a lot of young souls here on schoolhouse earth.
Love is the strongest energy in the universe. It is what holds everything together. And one day after many lifetimes, they too will have the knowledge and understanding of what love truly is. For now, align yourself with old souls and leave the young souls to learn and grow. With this knowledge, we allow ourselves a little wisdom insurance. © Psychic Medium Ian Scott